An average looking lady, by Nigerian standards, with the strength of inner beauty and femininity would make better wives and partners than those with spectacular looks but who exhibit coldness.

As far as physical features are concerned, men get attracted to a woman’s skin’s tone, lips, height and waist-to-hip ratio. While some men go weak in-between their trousers when they sight ladies with big tits and bums, others are not so much bothered about these. When it comes to looking for a life mate, however, some of these factors become pretty insignificant.

-Confidence:
Men get attracted to women who make them feel comfortable, confident, wanted and special. An average man will feel relaxed and open-minded to a woman who supports and cares for him.

-Genuine Love and Intimacy:
Men expect their women to be in love with them. For this to truly happen, an element of emotional attraction must go along with the physical intimacy. Without this emotional bonding, the relationship becomes hollow within a short period of time. Men tend to share their emotions and inner feelings with women who show them love instead of sharing such with their male friends. A woman that knows her onions should key into this, make herself relevant to become a very special person in her man’s life.

-Sexual Intimacy:
Physical closeness fulfills a deep need for emotional bonding which is essential in holding the relationship together. This bonding is true for both men and women. Men desire deep intimacy with their partners.

Sexual intimacy is essential to guys as well as babes. To my mind, labelling men as sex mongers is a bit unfair; they are just behaving in tune with their inherent nature.

A lady that can get wild with her man in-between the sheets will perpetually hold the golden key to unlock his heart. Apart from being able to fire and satisfy your man in bed, simple acts of physical intimacy like hugging, kissing or just cuddling will further earn you a special place in his heart.
-Good Company and Friendship:
Even if a man has a lot of friends to hang out with, they cannot fulfill the part his partner can play in his life. A man’s need of emotional intimacy and closeness is satisfied only in the company of his woman.

Most men feel at peace when they are in a stable relationship with their women because there’s a deep sense of intimacy and good company which is a basic attribute men look out for in a woman. Only a lady can be her man’s best friend, the reason she is her man’s girlfriend, wife and/or partner.
-Trust:
You must be trustworthy. Men generally are very particular about their women being loyal to them. If a man feels he is being cheated upon, he could terminate the relationship or even do worse, depending on his mood and approach to life.

Guys are getting more and more paranoid about their girlfriends because they can see other ladies being openly unfaithful to their men. Flirting with other men is not something a man would tolerate in his partner.

The aforementioned are those important traits that men find attractive in women. If you possess some of these, you are bound to attract good quality men. This list is inexhaustive though, I must let you know that every man has his unique taste.

The above points are common to most men but not all. Look at it this way. As I said at the beginning of this piece, a man may look for and get attracted to such qualities in a woman which he himself lacks. For instance, a tough guy may decide to look for a soft lady but if, as a lady, you have not been meeting the right guys, then, check yourself out, you certainly lack many of the aforementioned attributes.