For every woman out there, there is a man. It is left for the woman to patiently and diligently seek out her man. Depending on a man's personality, there are a lot of things that he may look out for or find attractive in a woman.

Often times, a man seeks in a woman all the qualities and features that he himself lacks. It is important to understand though that men can look at women from two different points of views.

The first being a woman with whom to have a temporary love-making relationship with and the second to have a woman as a life partner. Depending on these two points of views, men can look for and get attracted by different qualities in a woman.  Yes! We are all unique as human beings and we all have our distinctive perceptions and conditioning into every aspect of our lives.

So, there can be no actual generalisation on what men look out for in women because it will differ from one man to the other. Some guys might just be out to catch fun and prefer casual relationships while some look for commitment and long-term bonding.
Based on experience and research studies, it can be identified that what most men look out for in a partner varies. It is easy to understand that when it comes to a temporary love-making relationship, men look out for good physical structure, especially nice breasts and bums. But when it comes to pursuing a serious relationship, men seek for and get attracted to an entirely different set of traits. The following are some of the traits that attract a man to a woman and make him fall in love with a lady.

A Captivating Smile: This is one of the most important traits that most men look for and get attracted to in a woman. The right smile releases all those love hormones in a man and his mind pretty much gets set on that. Most men only visualise a woman's smile when they think about her. The smile of a woman is like a magnet which can draw the man's attention and keep it there.

A Feminine and Delicate Nature; Most men like feminine women.
Femininity is all about being delicate, soft, kind-hearted and caring. This attraction is justified by the fact that men are attracted to traits in a woman which they themselves lack. It must be made clear that femininity does not mean weak, dependent or insecure. Men like women who are feminine, yet confident and thus carry themselves with grace and candour.

A Woman's Voice: Men get attracted and are often turned on with the right voice which strikes a chord in them. Voice plays a major role as a communication medium and communication is the most important aspect of any relationship. Most men get attractive to either soft or high pitched voices.

Sense of Humour: Men will always feel uncomfortable with ladies who are laid-back, moody and are constantly in a negative mood. Such coldness on the part of the female can be very hurting to her man.
Everybody is born with a cheerful trait but many people lose this part of their personality due to pressures of daily living. There is a lot less friction and dissatisfaction in a relationship where the babe stays cheerful and joyful.
A good sense of humour is something that most men look for in a woman. Men generally get attracted to women who can easily understand and laugh with them. Sense of humour is not necessarily the ability to crack jokes but the ability to understand and laugh at one.

Simplicity: Men get attracted to women who are unmaterialistic and are down-to-earth. Women who are too demanding or those who appear as gold diggers are a major turn-off to any man. Too much make-up, jewelry and gadgets are certainly red flags. Most guys prefer simple down-to-earth women when they are looking for a mate for a committed relationship or to settle down with.

A Strong Personality: A strong personality is another trait which men find attractive in women. Of course, this does not mean arrogance or pride but someone with gait who is not weak-minded and can make her own decisions with confidence. Men love women who have guts and are bold.

The Eyes: Next to smile, this is another facial feature that men get attracted to. Some men simply fall in love with a woman's eyes.
The eyes can speak a thousand words and this is very much true when it comes to attracting the opposite sex.

The Woman's Hair: Most men get attracted by moderately long hair or anything close to shoulder length as this looks more feminine. Having said this, there are a lot of men out there who find women with short hair quite sexy and attractive.

Good looks and Physical Structure: If you ask any guy what instantly attracts him to a lady, the commonest answer will be her good look.
Physical attractiveness in a lady is important to men and there is no doubt about this. However, many men, particularly Nigerian men, do not look out for model looks. In fact, to them, good looks in the absence of other feminine features like tenderness, warmth, kindness and caring nature can easily puncture their interest.

(To be continued next week)