ShareIt is equally important to note that you may not find any of these methods pleasurable during the first exploration and that’s perfectly normal. When you experience this first discomfort, don’t despair, you can always try again in the future. Let me take you further through some of the various techniques and you can use in this process:

Your finger: I already mentioned this but you should not limit this method to solo exploration. Believe it or not, many women enjoy performing this type of stimulation on their partners right inside the bedroom, particularly when the resulting orgasms can be so powerful. If you would like to try something highly erotic, please have your woman to give you a blow job while stimulating your prostate. Now, do not be ashamed to encourage her do this for you, the result can be explosive. The G-spot goodie here is to simply brace your hands against the back of a sofa and bend over at a 90-degree angle. Spread your legs apart and have your wife or woman on her knees in front of you. This will allow her to perform oral sex while still being able to stimulate your prostate.

There is also the Rim job: There was a time when most women had no idea what a rim job was. Those days are long gone and many women, both married and otherwise, are nowadays quite savvy with this technique. If you would like to add a little extra ecstasy to your next love making session, please bring up for discussion with your spouse the subject of reciprocal rim job.

It is quite simple really; when you are both fresh out of the bath, use your tongue to gently probe each other’s anuses. The sensation is truly incredible and you are both sure to enjoy it. Your G-spot goodie here is for you and your woman to magnify your orgasms by manually stimulating each other during the rim job. Feel free to toy with your madam’s clitoris. This should lead to a powerful climax for her and a well-timed hand job by her will equally guarantee your own.

There is also the Butt Plug which is one of the simplest options available if you would like to combine sex and prostate stimulation. This can be ordered online or bought from adult shops and can be used during blow jobs or actual intercourse and they come in a variety of shapes and sizes, so you need not worry about the experience being painful or uncomfortable. Simply choose the size that meets your requirements. Your G-spot goodie is that if you would like to experience something truly incredible, work your muscles while penetrating your woman. This will stimulate the male G-spot further than you could possibly imagine. While I do not expect everyone to be immediately comfortable with this type of exploration, it is imperative to make it clear that it is perfectly acceptable and in no way strange or perverse unlike the submissions of a certain Mr/Ms R. S. Omotosho, who, last Saturday, sent me a text message, condemning this topic.

I want to assure Omotosho and others in his/her shoes that this column is strictly for adults and both the male and female G-spots are powerful glands that can lead to earth-shattering orgasms and I strongly believe every adult is entitled to that kind of pleasure. If, however, you are not ready for this type of play, that is perfectly understandable and I certainly would not want anybody to do anything that does not feel right for him or her. If, however, you are open-minded about your G-spot stimulation, I encourage you to try these tips and start working your way towards experiencing the ultimate orgasm. Share