ShareBolanle, I would have been shocked if you failed to tell us of a steady affair going through today’s piece. You were so direct that you owed your readers that conclusion, so they don’t start having ideas.
Greetings to Dipo.
Diji, Abeokuta

Re: Flirting Can Really Be Fun
It is nice to be a productive and wholehearted extrovert. By virtue of my background, I have low or zero turnovers of friends and I am in my mid 30s. Though I have experienced few disappointments from a few people. The strategy I use to relate with every lady that comes my way is to evaluate her being, chemistry, level of reasoning and her psychology and deal with her accordingly.
Tope Aina, 080 3207 0130

I am a farmer by calling, training and profession. To be 41 on October 27, married to a nurse who is externally and internally beautiful. I am a great father of two daughters, from Ogbomoso in Oyo State and at present working in Zamfara State. I have been following your write-ups in recent times and would like us to be friends, I mean friends –nothing attached. I hope you would not mind?
Thanks.
Mike Folorunso, 080 3445 3531

Mike, you are welcome.

Good day to you. Your article titled “Flirting can really be fun” is a master piece. I wish sugar daddies can soft pedal and make genuine suitors believable. You are good.
080 3416 7867

Bolanle, thanks for “Flirting Can Really Be Fun” in the Saturday Tribune of May 29. It’s re-assuring.
Kola, 080 5848 5049

Madam, I agree to honour and obey everything you wrote. I mean honesty, faithfulness, plain (sic), lovely and romantic.   Please I want you to link me up with any caring and lovely sugar mummy. I am 25 years old from Imo State.
Iyke, 070 6464 4109

I’m sorry, I don’t know of any. Cheers.

Bola, that article of yours in the Saturday Tribune of May 29 made an interesting reading. It is quite mature and very assertive. I hope to meet and know you one of these days. I quite admire you a great deal.
Tayo Apeju, 080 5313 9872

Hello Bolanle, I read your story on “Openness, Key to Successful Relationships (II). It promised to be continued next week. I want to know the day and also want to compliment your courage for making your private lifestyle publicly known. I understood your life experience as worthy of emulation, especially by my damsel.
Law, Jos

Bolanle Bruce, I love your write-up as presented in the Saturday Tribune of May 18, 2010 and will love to be your friend.
Kindly reply. Thanks and bye.
080 3576 3218

Help me, I’m in tune (sic), aroused and hungry for sex. I’m using my  hand to romance it. Open your legs, pussy, stroke your breasts, clitoris gently. The phone is on the dick; I’m enjoying it.
Anonymous, 070 3837 7025

Whoever you are, it’s obvious that you are rude, crude, uncouth and a sex pervert?  I will soon do a piece on perversion and how victims like you can get help.

Hi. I met a guy that loves me so much but I don’t trust men again. Should I continue to catch my fun because I don’t want to be heartbroken anymore.
081 3062 3226

You didn’t tell me your age and this does not give me a better insight into your person and present mood. However, you cannot continue to just catch fun as you put it. You probably are in your twenties right now and you won’t remain the same forever. You need to prayerfully trust a man that you can eventually spend the rest of your life with.

If this new guy really loves you and you can feel it, please, give him a chance. Life itself is a risk and it may not be worth living if you aren’t ready and willing to take risks.

I am a 38-year-old civil servant and I wish to have marriage link with a career lady who is ready to build a home with me. It does not matter if you already have a child as I already have one too. Any interested and serious lady can contact me on 070 3872 2423.
Osas

Osas, because of the explanations you gave while we exchanged text messages, I am doing this for you even though it is contrary to my self-made rule not allow this column to be used for matchmaking. Interested ladies should please contact Osas. I wish you the very best.

Hello Auntie. I am 20 years old. Whenever we are together, my boyfriend of five months keeps referring (and lovingly too) to his “ex” who is now married. This upsets me a lot. Please, what can I do?
Aisha, Abuja

Try and find out those things that endeared him so much to his “ex.” Also find out why your boyfriend parted ways with this same lady that he keeps talking about so glowingly. Your findings will assist you on the way forward. Meanwhile, ensure you always make him feel loved and appreciated. Men are like babies, they need petting. I wish you well. Share