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Saturday, 21 July 2012
Dear Yemisi,
I met a lady three months ago, and since then we've been seeing each other, we love each other, she told me she has a guy that she has been dating for four years.
My problem with her is that, she would go to the said guy’s house from 10 in the morning to come back around 8pm and come to mine just for two hours because we stay in the same area.
She later told me that she doesn't like the guy again and she couldn't just leave him, but still spend most of her time with him. I have made up my mind not to call or receive her calls, but she still comes to see me at home. I don't want to waste my time and hers because I don't need a girlfriend, I need someone to marry.
Please, I am confused, I don't know what to do!
Olanrewaju.
Dear Olanrewaju,
You have been able to establish what you actually want. You are not ready to leave things to chance.
As long as you know this, then you need not give in to a lady who is playing or toying with your emotions.
Olanrewaju, this girl is a cheat and would do anything to waste your time. She has no place for you in her heart. Does she work in the other guy’s house or office?
I don’t think she has any reason to continue to fool you or is she the one feeding you or paying your rent?
Even if she is responsible for the above bills, it is her choice. Must she now compensate herself by seeking solace somewhere?
Don’t allow her to put any form of embargo on you before it is too late.
Stop calling her. Have you never asked yourself why you must call her? She doesn’t deserve any form of queenly treatment. She is nothing else than a whore. You have to put down your feet and be blunt with her.
Let her know that your house is not a transit camp and she should stop coming to your place.
Let her know that you cannot continue to hope for a better future with her.
Cheer up and be man enough to begin a new lease of life with a more sensible lady. Distance yourself from such a name dropper.
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