Had it been you mentioned your age, it would be a useful peg for me to be able to suggest some things to be done. But as you have claimed to be young and still in your innocence you are able to understand the negative trend in your relationship with members of the opposite sex.    Your attitude might be traceable to immaturity on your side or lack of confidence or better still indecision, on who your choice must be.

The Holy Bible makes us to understand that, there is time and season for everything under the sun. There is no shortcut to this issue, if you are not ripe for sustaining any lasting relationship, there is nothing you can do about it. Why not wait for the time that you will be able to discern the affair that will not end up abruptly, leaving you embarrassed for life.

Have you also taken time to observe the state of your mind whenever you meet a new guy? Is it that you are even misinterpreting the men’s motives. Did any of them ask you out for a date? It is one thing to just assume that someone somewhere wants you, whereas, it never existed.

Dear Temmy, you need to develop self-confidence and see yourself as wonderfully and fearfully made by God and should learn to see other people in that light. If you have been looking down on yourself, please, from this moment begin to say good things about yourself and see good things in others.

As a promising young lady, please, you have to grow by having vision, goal and aspiration for your life both now and in the future. Begin to think of what you want to see in your future partner and what you want your home to look like. As a matter of urgency, start to define your life and learn to be stable in all your dealings.

You also need prayers and counsel of your mother and spiritual leader.

I strongly believe these two sets of people can lead and guide you rightly. No member of your peer group can help you out please.

It is well with you as you wait patiently for the right time.