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Saturday, 28 August 2010
Dear Yemisi,
I am a 24-year-old graduate who is in love with my age mate.
But he is too hard on me and none of his family members likes me.
He only demonstrates his love for me wherever he needs money from me.
Worried lady.
Dear Worried Lady,
It is high time you showed this money-for-hand lover the way out.
From the little information you have given on him, you don’t need a soothsayer or prophet to tell you that he is not interested in you, but in what he can milk from you.
I want to believe that you are a Yoruba lady where the culture of me-and-my-husband hardly works. Once you are married to a man, you are tactically married to all his people.
And in a situation where you are not wanted, then you need to open your eyes and ears widely and make the best decision of asking him to allow you be who God has made you to be.
There is time for you to start afresh. Stop welcoming him, even if he changes. I can bet it with you that he is not sincere, because he cannot change in his attitude.
Look for a more refined man who will appreciate everything about you.
You cannot be too sure of how he might have described or presented you before his family. Don’t forget that first impression always lasts long, if not forever.
Be wise.
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