Dear Yemisi,
I met a lady in my village in 2008 during Christmas and I wooed her. She agreed on phone early 2009.

We love each other, but she stays in Ibadan and I am in Abuja.

Since that time, we have not seen each other. At times, we broke the relationship that I deleted her number. But she pleaded with me, and I took her back.

But ever since, I have not been able to love except  this lady. But I don’t know what she is doing. She always tells me that she loves me.

I don’t know whether she is pretending.
Please advise me on.
Femmy

Dear Femmy,
I don’t know what you do for a living, but whatever it is, you have at least the weekends to yourself which I believe you could take time off to pay her unscheduled visit to verify her claims.
Loving a lady involves absolute trust from you and I believe if she has told you and pledged her love for you, you need not doubt her unless you are suspecting she is double dating.
You cannot get to know this until you find out about each other independently. And if you are of age to have a partner, you should be free to interact not on the phone if you are serious with this date of yours.
Now that you have been overwhelmed by her love, you better make the hay while the sun is shining. What suggests to you that she is pretending? Please, always find out facts before you conclude. And that you are both in different locations does not mean that out of sight is out of mind.
Get your facts right on time.

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