Dear Yemisi,

PLEASE, help me. I easily fall in love with boys. I am currently in love with two boys and I don’t know who to choose. I love everything about AB but I am not so close to him.

On the other hand, WD always makes me feel happy, but what I hate about him is that he looks at me seductively which makes me feel uncomfortable.

Please, help me.

I am  just 17 years old.
Funmi.

Dear Funmi,

You cannot but pass through this experience of picking the right guy. At 17, you are rather too young and immature for such a venture.

It is not possible for you to fall in love with two boys at the same time and share the same emotions with them.

I want to beg you to take your time before you zero in on any of the boys. But if I were you, I will let the sleeping dog lie for now. Why? You are not of age to handle any issue that concerns the opposite sex.

The best you could do for now is to remain as friends and no other thing except you are looking for trouble. Let whoever keep looking at you seductively be, with time he would get tired and relax if he notices that you are not showing equal commitment. There is nothing stopping anybody from admiring the work of creation, but you also must guide your thoughts so as not to fall by the wayside.

It will add more value to you, if you could allow the two of them and probably other prospective lovers know that you are not out for sale and that you would appreciate they give you time to define what relationship is all about.

For now, I will advise you face your studies squarely and at the right time, you will know how to pick the right man.

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