My wife is an unrepentant flirt!
Written by Monica Taiwo Friday, 27 July 2012
Dear Taiwo,
Please, help me. My wife is an unrepentant flirt. I don’t know what to do with her.
She thinks I am stupid and probably don’t know about her extra-marital affairs and escapades. I know what she does outside home. She meets men while she is supposed to be at work and sometimes, she would tell me she was travelling only to meet her man friend.
I read some of her text messages and confronted her sometime ago; atimes she denied, the one she could not deny, she said she would change, but she hasn’t. Please, what do I do? I am still keeping her because I don’t want a broken home because I am a product of such. I don’t like the way I grew up and I don’t want such for my children. How do I get her to change?
Paul.
Dear Paul,
This is a serious issue, but I think what you want supercedes the situation. You have stated the reason why you don’t want to send your wife packing, so, I will advise that you try and manage her and the situation. I don’t know what your financial strength is like, I would have suggested that you get her something doing, so that she would leave the job which is exposing her to men.
You should also call her again and speak with her. If necessary, you could mention this to your pastor or any respected member of her family. But let her know you intend going to this length if she does not change. I am sure these steps would caution her as she would not want her dirty linen washed in the public.
You should also look inwards and see if there are things that you do that she doesn’t like or which could make her resort to extra-marital affairs. Above all, help her in prayers and encourage her to do same.
It is well.
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