Dear Taiwo,
My boyfriend and I started dating about eight months ago. He said he loves me and I also care about him. The first time I visited him at home, he asked to have sex with me but I refused, since then he changed his behaviour towards me. He would not call me or returm my calls and text messages.

I don’t want to have sex with him or with any other man for now. I am 22 years and still a virgin. I am still trying to get an admission into a higher institution, please, what do I do?
Kemi.

Dear Kemi,
Your decision is right, and I advise that you keep it up. A lot of people equate or think sex is love. Both are different. Tell him why you don’t want to have sex, if he loves you, he would respect your feelings. If he can wait, good. If not, let him move on, do the same thing and work at attaining a secured future for yourself.
When you have a solid future, men will look for you. Do not allow any one or any situation to make you change your decision or make you do what you will regret in future. it is well.

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