Please, help me out of this sexual embarrassment!
I am 48, a graduate from one of the first generation universities.. I graduated 19 years ago and I had worked in both government and private secondary schools as a teacher for about 14 before I got disengaged.
The problem really is that I had been experiencing sexual menace since 1993 and I cannot say what really led to my being in this mess, I only attribute it to the evil act of the wicked people who I can’t see.
This problem has given me sleepless nights and has even led to my being declared psychologically unfit which had taken me to two notable hospitals in the country with my former name, Koleola O. Omidiora.
The two hospitals I have been to are: Obafemi Awolowo University Teaching Hospital Complex Ile-Ife, in Osun State and and Aro Psychiatric Hospital, Abeokuta, Ogun State.
When it starts I feel as if I am having a sex with a woman. At times it will make me to force myself to ejaculate after which I would feel comfortable. This unsavoury experience lasts the entire hours of each day since it began.
I had made a complaint to my doctor at the Psychiatric department of the the OAUTH in 2003, but he told me that there was no problem, though I knew I had a serious problem.
When I was unable to free myself of this act, I went to the State Hospital Ondo, Ondo State where I was a teacher. I lodged another complaint, but the doctor in attendance told me to go and buy some drugs which did not relate to my complaint. This sexual menace has led to my being a bachelor till date despite nearing the middle age. It has even exposed me to a secondary school boy life which I had left some 30 years ago
Having sought for ways of bailing myself out but saw none has warranted my writing to you this letter so that you too can as a way of assistace think of what I could do.
You can even consult those that you think understand the situation on my behalf and communicate to me your findings through your column. It is my prayer that you will not experience a problem without solution.
Koleola Omoniyi Fasakin
I have decided not to suggest a solution to this letter because I feel the writer should be given the opportunity of varied opinions and suggestions.
There is nothing new under the sun, like we all know, a problem shared is half solved.
I am of the opinion that you have various solutions and suggestions for him. Please, write and send your advise and solutions to this number 08025184706.
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